Becoming Unapologetically You, Inc. is a Christ-centered organization dedicated to identity, healing, transformation, and purposeful living. We exist to help individuals rediscover who they are in Christ, gain clarity, and confidently move forward into the life God has called them to live—spiritually, emotionally, and practically.

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This work is expressed through pastoral leadership, Christian counseling, Christian life coaching, and apostolic midwifery—each operating distinctly, yet cohesively, to support the whole person.

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Licensed to counsel under ministerial credentials, our approach is grounded in ethical, faith-based practice and supported by training in communication, interpersonal dynamics, and spiritual, emotional, and psychological listening. As a pastoral counselor, coach, and apostolic midwife, I do not simply offer guidance—I steward transformation, helping individuals navigate healing, identity alignment, and spiritual development with clarity and care.

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Nonprofit Organization

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As a nonprofit organization, we are dedicated to ensuring that our services are accessible to everyone in our community. To support this mission, we offer limited sliding-scale options and sponsored sessions, which are available upon request to individuals who may need financial assistance.

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Becoming Unapologetically You Inc. is a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization that focuses on delivering faith-based counseling, coaching, and personal development services. Our approach is deeply rooted in themes of identity, healing, and finding one's purpose. We believe that everyone deserves the opportunity to embark on their personal growth journey and find fulfillment in their lives.

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While we do offer paid services to help sustain and expand our initiatives, we are proud to share that a significant portion of the proceeds from these services directly supports our outreach efforts. This includes providing sponsored sessions and developing community-based initiatives specifically designed to make our services accessible to those who may be facing financial barriers. By investing in our mission, you are helping us create positive change and empower individuals in need within our community.

 

Counseling, Coaching, and Apostolic Midwifery: Distinct Roles, Unified Purpose​​

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While each dimension of this work carries a unique function, they are unified in purpose: to bring individuals into wholeness, alignment, and manifestation of who God created them to be.

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Christian Counseling (Pastoral Counseling Focus)

Christian counseling addresses emotional, psychological, and spiritual challenges—often rooted in past experiences, trauma, or unresolved internal conflicts. As a pastoral counselor, I provide a safe, Spirit-led environment where healing, restoration, and truth can take place. This process emphasizes insight, renewal of the mind, and reconciliation—helping individuals move forward in wholeness.

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Christian Life Coaching (Forward Movement & Strategy)

Coaching is forward-focused and action-oriented. It partners with individuals to clarify vision, establish goals, and take intentional steps toward purpose. Coaching helps individuals build structure, develop discipline, and walk out what has already been revealed—aligning their life with their identity and calling.

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Apostolic Midwifery (Spiritual Birthing & Identity Formation)

Apostolic midwifery is the spiritual dimension of this work. It is the assignment to discern, nurture, and help “birth” what God has placed within an individual—identity, purpose, healing, and destiny. This requires spiritual sensitivity, discernment, and the ability to walk with individuals through pressing, stretching, and transformation.

This is not performance-based work—it is process-centered, Spirit-led, and identity-driven.
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Our Coaching Philosophy

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This work is rooted in responsibility, awareness, and transformation.

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We do not “fix” people. Instead, we:

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• Help you recognize truth.

• Confront limitations and internal barriers.

• Develop clarity and confidence.

• Equip you with tools for sustainable growth.

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You are an active participant in your process.

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We provide guidance, accountability, discernment, and strategy.

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Who Seeks Christian Life Coaching?

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Individuals often seek support when they feel:

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• Stuck between who they were and who they are becoming

• Emotionally or spiritually overwhelmed

• Disconnected from purpose or identity

• In transition, needing clarity and direction

• Ready for healing, growth, and alignment

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This space is for those who are ready to do the work—not just hear the Word.

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Foundational Coaching Questions

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Every coaching/counseling relationship begins with intentional discernment:

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1. What are you currently facing?

2. What do you believe you need in this season—healing, clarity, or direction?

3. Is counseling, coaching, or a deeper level of spiritual support appropriate?

4. How can I best support you in this process?

5. What outcome are you expecting?

 

From your responses, we create a personalized, Spirit-led plan aligned with your growth and development.

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Accountability, Support, and Partnership

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Life is busy, and sustaining momentum can be difficult when accountability rests solely on your shoulders. Having a coach/counselor who understands your journey—who celebrates your victories and encourages you through challenges—can be transformative.

 

HOWEVER....​​ Transformation requires consistency, determination, and discipline!

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As your pastoral counselor, coach, and midwife, I partner with you to:

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• Clarify vision and identity.

• Establish practical and spiritual goals.

• Navigate internal and external obstacles.

• Remain accountable for growth.

• Recognize and celebrate progress.

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You are not walking alone—this is a guided, intentional journey.

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Faith, Integrity, and Respect​

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Some may question the integration of faith within coaching/Christian counseling. However, excluding spiritual identity often leads to compartmentalized living—separating the sacred from the practical. At Becoming Unapologetically You, Inc., we believe authentic coaching honors the whole person: spirit, soul, and body.

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While we never impose beliefs or coerce spiritual alignment, we also do not suppress who we are!

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Faith is not imposed, but it is not hidden. We operate with:​

 

• Integrity

• Respect

• Ethical boundaries

• Authenticity

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Every individual is valued, and every decision remains their own.

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Identity, Freedom, and Forward Vision

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Inspiration already lives within you. You were created to live boldly, authentically, and without apology.

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“There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.” — Romans 8:1

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Your past does not define your identity. Who you are today is shaped by growth, choices, resilience, and grace. Where you are going matters more than where you have been. Each day presents a new opportunity to pursue purpose, healing, and fulfillment.

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This is your opportunity to:

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• Heal

• Grow

• Align

• Become

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The Value of Christian Life Coaching/Counseling​

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Christian Life Coaching/Counseling is a powerful tool for believers seeking alignment with God’s will. Through prayerful guidance and Spirit-led discernment, coaching/counseling helps individuals:

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• Gain clarity and focus.

• Identify strengths and areas for growth.

• Develop actionable, faith-aligned plans.

• Recenter priorities amid life’s noise and distractions

 

By partnering with a trained Christian Life Coach/Counselor, clients are encouraged to seek God’s wisdom, listen to His direction, and walk confidently in the purpose He designed for them.

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Spiritual Direction and Transformation

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Spiritual direction offers a sacred space for reflection, growth, and deeper intimacy with God. Through coaching, individuals may experience:​

 

• Life redirection through intentional evaluation and action

• Development of a healthy, godly mindset rooted in Scripture

• Renewal and transformation of the mind

• Strengthened faith and trust in God’s guidance

• Discernment in hearing the Lord’s heart for specific situations

• Greater awareness of how the Holy Spirit communicates through prayer, Scripture, and stillness… and much more.

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What to Expect in a Session​

 

Before your session, you will receive a questionnaire designed to identify focus areas and prepare your heart and mind. Each session starts with prayer and Scripture, fostering a peaceful, Spirit-led atmosphere. This is followed by a guided discussion that may include counseling, coaching, or midwifery as needed.

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Sessions are personalized and responsive to what the Holy Spirit reveals and what you desire to explore. Together, we develop practical steps that support spiritual growth, clarity, and personal development.

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Our ultimate goal is to enrich your life and deepen your relationship with God—helping you walk in freedom, confidence, and purpose.

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The Goal of Each Session

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The primary goal of every session is simple yet profound: to draw you closer to God.

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You will leave with insight, clarity, and actionable steps for your next season. At times, God’s direction may require further reflection and prayer—but seeking Him is always fruitful. Each session equips you to move forward with wisdom, confidence, and peace.​​​​

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If you are ready to pursue clarity, purpose, and transformation, I invite you to reach out. Whether you have specific goals or simply sense that God is calling you forward, I am here to partner with you.​

 

Let’s Begin

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If you are ready to move from where you are to where God is calling you…

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Together, we can move from where you are to where God is leading you—intentionally, faithfully, and unapologetically.

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I invite you into this process.

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This is your time to:

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Be healed.
Be aligned.
Be transformed.
Be unapologetically you.